infra: auto update docker image (apache#2885)

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# Rationale for this change
Add the `--build` flag to `docker compose up`. This will trigger docker
to rebuild if the docker-compose file or the Dockerfile is changed.

This is useful when we need to change the `ICEBERG_VERSION` in
[dev/spark/Dockerfile](https://github.com/apache/iceberg-python/blob/dea80784a5f9d6936a605c7ccb0f3f8d4ba30d9d/dev/spark/Dockerfile#L21).
Previously, `make integration` will not pick up the new
`ICEBERG_VERSION` change. It will only be picked up by rebuilding the
image explicitly with `make test-integration-rebuild`.
With this PR, the `ICEBERG_VERSION` will be picked up automatically. The
new Iceberg jar will be downloaded and the rest of the docker artifacts
will be cached.

## Are these changes tested?
Yes, locally using `ICEBERG_VERSION=1.10.1`

## Are there any user-facing changes?
No
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Author: kevinjqliu

Makefile

@@ -100,7 +100,7 @@ test-integration: test-integration-setup test-integration-exec test-integration-
 test-integration-setup: ## Start Docker services for integration tests
 	docker compose -f dev/docker-compose-integration.yml kill
 	docker compose -f dev/docker-compose-integration.yml rm -f
-	docker compose -f dev/docker-compose-integration.yml up -d --wait
+	docker compose -f dev/docker-compose-integration.yml up -d --build --wait
 	uv run $(PYTHON_ARG) python dev/provision.py
 
 test-integration-exec: ## Run integration tests (excluding provision)