Fix pynwb.validate() for Zarr-backed NWB files

[h-mayorquin]

I encounter this while working on the inspector NeurodataWithoutBorders/nwbinspector#699

Closes #2131 and #2119.

Calling pynwb.validate() on a Zarr file raised TypeError: ZarrIO.load_namespaces: unrecognized argument: 'driver', unrecognized argument: 'aws_region' because the validator resolved the backend via _get_backend and then unconditionally forwarded HDF5 (Hierarchical Data Format 5) kwargs (driver, aws_region, load_namespaces) into whichever backend it returned, including NWBZarrIO.

The fix follows, to the best of my understanding, @oruebel recommendation here in hdmf-dev/hdmf-zarr#302: rather than scatter backend dispatch across the validator, concentrate backend-specific construction in a single _open_backend_io helper that translates kwargs per backend, and switch namespace loading to HDMFIO.load_namespaces_io on the open IO. This leverages @rly's instance-method API added in hdmf-dev/hdmf#1299 which replaces the classmethod call that required reaching into the private io._file attribute, so the long-standing TODO from #2119 is retired as part of the same change. storage_options is added to the public validate() API so Zarr users can pass fsspec (filesystem spec) config through.

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