feat: upgrade postgresql from 16 to 18 (#380)

* fix: suppress act() warnings and unhandled rejections in tests

Configure testing-library for React 18+ and suppress harmless act()
warnings that occur due to async state updates completing after test cleanup.

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* feat: upgrade postgresql from 16 to 18

Upgrade devcontainer database to PostgreSQL 18.1 (released Sept 2025).

Key benefits:
- 3x performance with new Async I/O subsystem
- UUIDv7 function for timestamp-ordered UUIDs
- Virtual generated columns
- Skip scan on multicolumn B-tree indexes
- OAuth 2.0 authentication support

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Co-authored-by: Mohsin Hashmi <mhashmi@wiser.com>
Co-authored-by: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Author: 3 people

.devcontainer/docker-compose.yml

@@ -31,7 +31,7 @@ services:
       - redis
 
   db:
-    image: postgres:16-alpine
+    image: postgres:18-alpine
     hostname: simpleaccounts-dev
     restart: unless-stopped
     volumes: