PushdownFilter optimizations (apache#21668)

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- Addresses apache#20002
- Includes apache#21643
- Looks like we had a similar idea with apache#21667, cc @kumarUjjawal
  - [x] I like the name `try_unchecked` more so I would adopt that
- I'm not sure if we need to keep the unaliasing, the optimizer rule
already does that
- I have additional changes for more aggressive optimizations, so I'm
happy to combine the PRs or rebase after merge

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 - Add a hidden `Filter::new` constructor that skips type-checking
 - Less allocations, more modification of mutable plan nodes
 - Less cloning, use references when possible

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Relying on existing tests mostly, added a few more tests.

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`make_filter` is deprecated, probably wasn't meant to be a public
function.

Author: joroKr21

datafusion-testing

@@ -2495,6 +2495,19 @@ pub struct Filter {
 }
 
 impl Filter {
+    /// Create a new filter operator.
+    ///
+    /// Skips the type-checking and dealiasing done in [Self::try_new].
+    /// For internal use in DataFusion only.
+    ///
+    /// **Preconditions:**
+    /// - the `predicate` expression returns a boolean value
+    /// - the `predicate` expression is not aliased
+    #[doc(hidden)]
+    pub fn new(predicate: Expr, input: Arc<LogicalPlan>) -> Self {
+        Self { predicate, input }
+    }
+
     /// Create a new filter operator.
     ///
     /// Notes: as Aliases have no effect on the output of a filter operator,