feat(cdk): enable fail-fast shutdown on memory threshold with dual-condition check #4607

Job	Run time
Get Changes	3s
Check: source-pokeapi	2m 5s
Check: destination-motherduck	3m 25s
Check: source-shopify	6m 1s
Check: source-intercom	2m 46s
Check: source-hardcoded-records	2m 34s
Skipped Check: source-google-drive	4s
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