Refactor sdkhooks callback loops (#2513)

* Fix use-after-free when removing vtable hooks

* Deduplicate sdkhooks hook dispatch code

* Keep hook deletion async

* Erase hooks if no callbacks are left

* Edit diff history

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Co-authored-by: Kenzzer <14257866+kenzzer@users.noreply.github.com>

Author: Mikusch