use a more recent arrow commit

The commit includes apache/arrow#46912,
which are resolve our frequent CI failures.

Author: zhjwpku

README.md

@@ -24,7 +24,7 @@ C++ implementation of [Apache Iceberg™](https://iceberg.apache.org/).
 ## Requirements
 
 - CMake 3.25 or higher
-- C++20 compliant compiler
+- C++23 compliant compiler
 
 ## Build
 

cmake_modules/IcebergThirdpartyToolchain.cmake

@@ -99,7 +99,7 @@ function(resolve_arrow_dependency)
   fetchcontent_declare(VendoredArrow
                        ${FC_DECLARE_COMMON_OPTIONS}
                        GIT_REPOSITORY https://github.com/apache/arrow.git
-                       GIT_TAG e411851738c2528a5ce24857805e0eac57e2c659
+                       GIT_TAG f12356adaaabea86638407e995e73215dbb58bb2
                        #URL ${ARROW_SOURCE_URL}
                        #URL_HASH "SHA256=${ICEBERG_ARROW_BUILD_SHA256_CHECKSUM}"
                        SOURCE_SUBDIR