[SPARK-57906] Upgrade java-operator-sdk to 5.4.0

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

Update operator-sdk version

### Why are the changes needed?

include features & bug fix from https://github.com/operator-framework/java-operator-sdk/releases/tag/v5.4.0
https://github.com/operator-framework/java-operator-sdk/releases/tag/v5.4.0
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

no

### How was this patch tested?

unit test

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

no

Closes #735 from TQJADE/patch-1.

Authored-by: Tan Qi <16416018+TQJADE@users.noreply.github.com>
Signed-off-by: Dongjoon Hyun <dongjoon@apache.org>

Author: TQJADE

gradle/libs.versions.toml

@@ -18,7 +18,7 @@
 fabric8 = "7.8.0"
 lombok = "1.18.46"
 netty = "4.2.15.Final"
-operator-sdk = "5.3.5"
+operator-sdk = "5.4.0"
 dropwizard-metrics = "4.2.39"
 spark = "4.2.0-preview5"
 hadoop = "3.5.0"