[SPARK-56513][INFRA] Pin meson<1.11.0 and lxml==4.9.4 in Dockerfile for PyPy to recover CI

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?
This PR pin `meson<1.11.0` and `lxml==4.9.4` to recover CI.

### Why are the changes needed?
Recently, CI fails due to docker image building failure.
https://github.com/apache/spark/actions/runs/24489111484/job/71571576157

The root causes are:
* meson `1.11.0` was recently released and pandas 2.3.3 can not be built with it (pandas-dev/pandas#65252)
* Newer lxml was also released (https://pypi.org/project/lxml/#history). This PR pin to `4.9.4` to consistent with the version specified in `.github/workflows/build_and_test.yml`.

Without pinning `lxml`, `docker build` will fail with following error.
```
538.3 Collecting lxml
538.3   Downloading lxml-6.0.4.tar.gz (4.2 MB)
538.4      ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 4.2/4.2 MB 91.5 MB/s  0:00:00
538.7   Installing build dependencies: started
540.6   Installing build dependencies: finished with status 'done'
540.6   Getting requirements to build wheel: started
541.3   Getting requirements to build wheel: finished with status 'error'
541.3   error: subprocess-exited-with-error
541.3
541.3   × Getting requirements to build wheel did not run successfully.
541.3   │ exit code: 1
541.3   ╰─> [3 lines of output]
541.3       Building lxml version 6.0.4.
541.3       Building without Cython.
541.3       Error: Please make sure the libxml2 and libxslt development packages are installed.
541.3       [end of output]
541.3
541.3   note: This error originates from a subprocess, and is likely not a problem with pip.
541.3 ERROR: Failed to build 'lxml' when getting requirements to build wheel
------
Dockerfile:67
--------------------
  66 |     RUN curl -sS https://bootstrap.pypa.io/get-pip.py | pypy3
  67 | >>> RUN echo 'meson<1.11.0' > /tmp/constraints.txt && \
  68 | >>>     PIP_CONSTRAINT=/tmp/constraints.txt pypy3 -m pip install numpy 'six==1.16.0' 'pandas==2.3.3' scipy coverage matplotlib lxml && \
  69 | >>>     rm -f /tmp/constraints.txt
  70 |
--------------------
```

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
No.

### How was this patch tested?
Confirmed that `docker build` works for both `dev/infra/Dockerfile` and `dev/spark-test-image/pypy-310/Dockerfile`

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?
No.

Closes #55369 from sarutak/pin-meson-lxml.

Authored-by: Kousuke Saruta <sarutak@amazon.co.jp>
Signed-off-by: Ruifeng Zheng <ruifengz@foxmail.com>

Author: sarutak

dev/infra/Dockerfile

@@ -92,7 +92,9 @@ RUN mkdir -p /usr/local/pypy/pypy3.10 && \
     ln -sf /usr/local/pypy/pypy3.10/bin/pypy /usr/local/bin/pypy3.10 && \
     ln -sf /usr/local/pypy/pypy3.10/bin/pypy /usr/local/bin/pypy3
 RUN curl -sS https://bootstrap.pypa.io/get-pip.py | pypy3
-RUN pypy3 -m pip install numpy 'six==1.16.0' 'pandas==2.3.3' scipy coverage matplotlib lxml
+RUN echo 'meson<1.11.0' > /tmp/constraints.txt && \
+    PIP_CONSTRAINT=/tmp/constraints.txt pypy3 -m pip install numpy 'six==1.16.0' 'pandas==2.3.3' scipy coverage matplotlib 'lxml==4.9.4' && \
+    rm -f /tmp/constraints.txt
 
 
 ARG BASIC_PIP_PKGS="numpy pyarrow>=18.0.0 six==1.16.0 pandas==2.3.3 scipy plotly>=4.8 mlflow>=2.8.1 coverage matplotlib openpyxl memory-profiler>=0.61.0 scikit-learn>=1.3.2"

dev/spark-test-image/pypy-310/Dockerfile

@@ -64,4 +64,6 @@ ENV PATH="$VIRTUAL_ENV/bin:$PATH"
 
 # Install PyPy 3.10 packages
 RUN curl -sS https://bootstrap.pypa.io/get-pip.py | pypy3
-RUN pypy3 -m pip install numpy 'six==1.16.0' 'pandas==2.3.3' scipy coverage matplotlib lxml
+RUN echo 'meson<1.11.0' > /tmp/constraints.txt && \
+    PIP_CONSTRAINT=/tmp/constraints.txt pypy3 -m pip install numpy 'six==1.16.0' 'pandas==2.3.3' scipy coverage matplotlib 'lxml==4.9.4' && \
+    rm -f /tmp/constraints.txt