C++ include netinet/in.h and sys/socket.h on non-Windows

[delphij]

arpa/inet.h does not guarantee that socket types (struct sockaddr, socklen_t, etc.) are defined on all POSIX platforms. FreeBSD in particular requires netinet/in.h and sys/socket.h to be included explicitly. Add both under the existing !_WIN32 guard.

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