fix(ios): require explicit runner startup

Author: hannojg

ios-runner/AgentDeviceRunner/AgentDeviceRunnerUITests/RunnerTests.swift

@@ -91,6 +91,12 @@ final class RunnerTests: XCTestCase {
 
   @MainActor
   func testCommand() throws {
+    let isHeadlessStartup = ProcessInfo.processInfo.environment["AGENT_DEVICE_RUNNER_HEADLESS_STARTUP"] == "1"
+    if !isHeadlessStartup {
+      NSLog("AGENT_DEVICE_RUNNER_HEADLESS_STARTUP=0")
+      return
+    }
+
     doneExpectation = expectation(description: "agent-device command handled")
     NSLog("AGENT_DEVICE_RUNNER_HEADLESS_STARTUP=1")
     let desiredPort = RunnerEnv.resolvePort()