fix: remove constructive-compute-stubs, fix pgpm deploy ordering

- Remove constructive-compute-stubs directory (has metaschema_public deps
  that don't exist in standalone mode)
- Strip constructive-compute-stubs from .control requires in both
  constructive-compute and constructive-platform-function-graph
- Strip partman entries from constructive-compute pgpm.plan (reference
  metaschema_public.partition which doesn't exist standalone)
- Strip metaschema_public.partition INSERTs from compiled SQL
- Fix module deploy order: graph before compute (compute depends on graph)
  in scripts/up.sh and functions-test connections.ts
- Restore Dan's pgpm.plan from 3573c0f as base, append only new column
  entries for inputs/outputs/props/volatile/icon/category

Author: pyramation

packages/functions-test/src/connections.ts

@@ -19,8 +19,8 @@ const SCHEMA_MODULES = [
   'constructive-objects',
   'constructive-storage',
   'constructive-store',
-  'constructive-compute',
   'constructive-platform-function-graph',
+  'constructive-compute',
 ];
 
 /**