build: migrate to napi-rs v3

[2bndy5]

• bumps all outdated dependencies (pip, npm, cargo).
• upgrade to yarn v4.9.2
• switch from eslint to oxlint
• add spellcheck as pre-commit hook
• removes the bindings/node/npm folder as this is now generated in CI
• adds a check to ensure the PR title uses conventional commit standard (enforced and configured via committed tool)
• fixes deprecated API about probing system SSL certificates (when openSSL is vendored)
• adds commit filters specific to conventional commit messages when generating the CHANGELOG

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 96.90%. Comparing base (ada1fbc) to head (137c097).
⚠️ Report is 21 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   97.53%   96.90%   -0.64%     
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  Files          14       14              
  Lines        3406     3132     -274     
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- Hits         3322     3035     -287     
- Misses         84       97      +13     

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[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #164 will not alter performance

_{Comparing napi-rs-v3 (137c097) with main (ada1fbc)¹}

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Summary

✅ 1 untouched benchmarks

Footnotes

1. No successful run was found on main (e69ce36) during the generation of this report, so ada1fbc was used instead as the comparison base. There might be some changes unrelated to this pull request in this report. ↩