fix(query): rotate parquet spill row groups

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Summary

• Rotate parquet spill files before a single file reaches parquet's row group ordinal limit.
• Support multiple spill files per aggregate bucket / grace hash join partition when rotation happens.
• Add unit coverage for rolling spill writer file rotation.

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