fix(sea): sync package-lock for napi-rs/cli + skip native smoke test until binding ships

CI was red on every job at `npm ci` (EUSAGE: "Missing @napi-rs/cli@2.18.4
from lock file") — package.json added @napi-rs/cli (build:native devDep) and
the @databricks/sql-kernel-linux-x64-gnu optional dep, but package-lock.json
was never regenerated. Updated the lock (the unpublished optional dep is
recorded as optional, so `npm ci` tolerates/skips it).

Also: the version smoke test fail-louded when the binding was absent on a
linux-x64 CI runner, assuming the optional dep installs there. It doesn't yet
— the @databricks/sql-kernel-* packages aren't published and the standard CI
doesn't run build:native — so the fail-loud was spurious. Gate it behind
SEA_NATIVE_EXPECTED=1 (set once a CI step provisions the binding); default to
skip. The e2e smoke test already skips when the binding is absent.

Co-authored-by: Isaac
Signed-off-by: Madhavendra Rathore <madhavendra.rathore@databricks.com>

Author: msrathore-db

package-lock.json

@@ -15,13 +15,18 @@
 import { expect } from 'chai';
 import { tryGetSeaNative } from '../../../lib/sea/SeaNativeLoader';
 
-// On a CI runner whose triple is supposed to have a published binding
-// (M0 = linux-x64-gnu) a missing binding is a hard failure — a silent
-// skip there would mask a broken build / packaging regression. On every
-// other platform (and on dev machines) the binding is optional, so we
-// skip.
+// Fail loudly only when the binding is actually expected to be present —
+// i.e. a CI step has provisioned it (a published `@databricks/sql-kernel-*`
+// optional dep installed, or `npm run build:native` was run) and opts in via
+// `SEA_NATIVE_EXPECTED=1`. A missing binding there is a real packaging / build
+// regression that a silent skip would mask.
+//
+// Until those binding packages are published, the standard CI cannot install
+// the optional dep and does not build the native binding, so the binding is
+// legitimately absent — default to a skip rather than a spurious hard failure.
+// (`npm ci` already skips the unpublished optional dep.)
 function bindingIsExpected(): boolean {
-  return process.env.CI === 'true' && process.platform === 'linux' && process.arch === 'x64';
+  return process.env.SEA_NATIVE_EXPECTED === '1';
 }
 
 describe('SEA native binding — smoke test', function smoke() {