deps: Update ClrMD version to 4.x

[filzrev]

1. Update ClrMD version to 4.x
Currently v4.x is release as beta .
It'll expected to be released soon. (https://github.com/microsoft/clrmd/issues/1376)

2. Update existing code based on migration guide
https://github.com/microsoft/clrmd/blob/main/doc/Migrating4.md

3. Remove temporary workaround code for Linux
Linux crashes when using AttachToProcess in the same process issue seems be resolved on latest version.
microsoft/clrmd#1282

4. Remove temporary workaround code for macOS
ClrMD v4 add CreateSnapshotAndAttach support for macos.
https://github.com/microsoft/clrmd/blob/main/doc/Migrating4.md#macos-createsnapshotandattach-support

TODO:

Enable Disassembler tests for Windows+Arm64
Almost test cases works on Windows+arm64 after migrated to ClrMD 4,x
microsoft/clrmd#1365

It need dynamically skip test cases on following conditions.

1. Running on Windows+arm+.NET Framework
2. Using InProcessToolchain

Because following exception thrown.

// ! InProcessEmitExecutor, exception: System.DllNotFoundException: Unable to load DLL 'capstone': The specified module could not be found. (Exception from HRESULT: 0x8007007E)
   at Gee.External.Capstone.NativeCapstoneImport.CreateDisassembler(DisassembleArchitecture disassembleArchitecture, NativeDisassembleMode disassembleMode, IntPtr& pDisassembler)
   at Gee.External.Capstone.NativeCapstone.CreateDisassembler(DisassembleArchitecture disassembleArchitecture, NativeDisassembleMode disassembleMode)
   at Gee.External.Capstone.CapstoneDisassembler`8..ctor(DisassembleArchitecture disassembleArchitecture, TDisassembleMode disassembleMode)
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Disassemblers.Arm64Disassembler.<Decode>d__2.MoveNext() in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Disassemblers/Arm64Disassembler.cs:line 199
   at System.Collections.Generic.List`1.InsertRange(Int32 index, IEnumerable`1 collection)
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Disassemblers.ClrMdDisassembler.DisassembleMethod(MethodInfo methodInfo, State state, ClrMdArgs args, DisassemblySyntax syntax, SourceCodeProvider sourceCodeProvider) in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Disassemblers/ClrMdDisassembler.cs:line 199
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Disassemblers.ClrMdDisassembler.Disassemble(ClrMdArgs args, State state) in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Disassemblers/ClrMdDisassembler.cs:line 161
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Disassemblers.ClrMdDisassembler.AttachAndDisassemble(ClrMdArgs args) in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Disassemblers/ClrMdDisassembler.cs:line 101
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Diagnosers.DisassemblyDiagnoser.<HandleAsync>d__23.MoveNext() in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Disassemblers/DisassemblyDiagnoser.cs:line 98
--- End of stack trace from previous location where exception was thrown ---
   at System.Runtime.ExceptionServices.ExceptionDispatchInfo.Throw()
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Diagnosers.CompositeDiagnoser.<HandleAsync>d__9.MoveNext() in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Diagnosers/CompositeDiagnoser.cs:line 39
--- End of stack trace from previous location where exception was thrown ---
   at System.Runtime.ExceptionServices.ExceptionDispatchInfo.Throw()
   at System.Runtime.CompilerServices.TaskAwaiter.HandleNonSuccessAndDebuggerNotification(Task task)
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Toolchains.InProcess.Emit.InProcessEmitRunner.<Run>d__0.MoveNext() in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Toolchains/InProcess/Emit/InProcessEmitRunner.cs:line 52
--- End of stack trace from previous location where exception was thrown ---
   at System.Runtime.ExceptionServices.ExceptionDispatchInfo.Throw()
   at System.Runtime.CompilerServices.TaskAwaiter.HandleNonSuccessAndDebuggerNotification(Task task)
   at BenchmarkDotNet.Toolchains.InProcess.Emit.InProcessEmitExecutor.<ExecuteCore>d__3.MoveNext() in /_/src/BenchmarkDotNet/Toolchains/InProcess/Emit/InProcessEmitExecutor.cs:line 78