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| 2 | +title: Truth or comfort |
| 3 | +description: What are you optimising for? If you had to pick one, which would you choose? |
| 4 | +date: "2022-10-15" |
| 5 | +--- |
| 6 | + |
| 7 | +What are you optimising for? |
| 8 | + |
| 9 | +If you had to pick one, which would you choose? |
| 10 | + |
| 11 | +Truth or comfort? |
| 12 | + |
| 13 | +Will you open yourself to the reality of the situation and embrace it, or wrap yourself in your duvet and hide? |
| 14 | + |
| 15 | +I've come to believe that the raw, honest answer to this question can accurately predict most of how our lives will go. |
| 16 | + |
| 17 | +Choose truth, and accept pain, accept reality not aligning with our perfect little world, expect hard work as a result. |
| 18 | + |
| 19 | +Choose comfort, and accept atrophy, accept nice stories that make us feel warm and fuzzy, but don't correlate to reality, expect future pain as a result. |
| 20 | + |
| 21 | +This dichotomy shows itself in every area of our lives. |
| 22 | + |
| 23 | +Will we have the hard conversation in that relationship, or will we compromise and let it slide? |
| 24 | + |
| 25 | +Will we question the worldview we were given as a child, or seek answers that confirm what we want to be true, regardless of whether it is? |
| 26 | + |
| 27 | +Will we look ourselves in the mirror, and acknowledge where our health is really at? |
| 28 | + |
| 29 | +The truth seeker knows the trade off. |
| 30 | + |
| 31 | +It feels the lure of comfort. |
| 32 | + |
| 33 | +And truth be told, it misses it, sometimes. |
| 34 | + |
| 35 | +Not the path it leads you on, which is towards destruction, towards entropy. |
| 36 | + |
| 37 | +But the in-the-moment feeling, the self-deception that rolling over in bed, hitting snooze and missing that work out won't really have an impact on your life. |
| 38 | + |
| 39 | +And sure, small blips aren't that consequential, we all have ups and downs in life. Missing one workout won't make any noticeable difference. |
| 40 | + |
| 41 | +It's not about playing the perfect game. Not every season is one of "going hard". |
| 42 | + |
| 43 | +But truth and comfort lie at opposite ends of the spectrum, like the north and south pole. |
| 44 | + |
| 45 | +And us, like magnets, will be pulled towards that which we crave the most. |
| 46 | + |
| 47 | +Our mindset will dictate what we gravitate towards. |
| 48 | + |
| 49 | +Truth or comfort. |
| 50 | + |
| 51 | +Which one will you choose? |
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