feat(opentelemetry): Support `db.system.name` attribute for database spans

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The pull request "feat(opentelemetry): Support db.system.name attribute for database spans" was created by @andreiborza but did not reference an issue. Therefore this issue was created for better visibility in external tools like Linear.

Supports the now stable db.system.name semantic convention attribute alongside the deprecated db.system attribute when identifying database spans.

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JS-1513

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This issue was referenced by PR #18902, which was included in the 10.36.0 release.