CANN: add new ops, optimize existing ops (#21204)

New operators:
- GGML_OP_SET: implement via aclnnInplaceCopy on target region
- GGML_OP_CUMSUM: implement via aclnnCumsum
- GGML_OP_FILL: implement via aclnnInplaceFillScalar
- GGML_OP_DIAG: implement via aclnnInplaceCopy on diagonal strides
- GGML_OP_TRI (lower/lower_diag/upper_diag/upper): implement via
  aclnnTril(-1/0) and aclnnTriu(0/1) with appropriate diagonal offsets
- GGML_OP_SOLVE_TRI: implement via aclnnTriangularSolve
- GGML_UNARY_OP_SOFTPLUS: implement via aclnnSoftplus

Optimizations:
- GLU (SwiGLU/GeGLU/GeGLU_ERF/GeGLU_QUICK): fuse with aclnnSwiGlu /
  aclnnGeGluV3 when applicable; fallback conditions now checked inside
  each function rather than at the call site
- CROSS_ENTROPY_LOSS: replace 5-kernel sequence (LogSoftmax→Mul→
  ReduceSum×2→Muls) with single aclnnSoftmaxCrossEntropyWithLogits call
- L2_NORM: fix in-place ClampMin on norm result (was clamping wrong
  tensor); add eps clamping before division to avoid divide-by-zero
- PAD_REFLECT_1D: eliminate per-ne[3] loop; assert contiguity and call
  ReflectionPad1d once on the full 4-D view; remove redundant nb copies
- GET_ROWS: replace IndexSelect with GatherV2 per batch slice; refactor
  helper into gather_batched lambda with batch loop inlined
- SET_ROWS: replace IndexCopy with InplaceIndexCopy per batch slice;
  refactor helper into scatter_batched lambda with batch loop inlined
- OUT_PROD: replace O(ne[3]*ne[2]*ne[1]) Ger+InplaceAdd loop with
  per-slice Matmul loop (src0 @ src1^T); handles strided-broadcast
  batch dims where ne02/ne03 may differ from ne2/ne3
- backend memset_tensor: implement via aclrtMemset (was NULL)

Bug fixes:
- COUNT_EQUAL: use non-inplace EqTensor into a same-type temporary
  buffer instead of InplaceEqTensor, avoiding corruption of src0
- ACL graph cache (USE_ACL_GRAPH): restore node_type and src_type[]
  fields in ggml_graph_node_properties; has_matching_properties() was
  missing type checks, causing F16 and BF16 tensors (same nb[0]=2) to
  incorrectly share cached graphs and produce wrong results (ERR≈679)
- graph cache op_params matching: compare full GGML_MAX_OP_PARAMS
  bytes so that ops differing only in parameters are not incorrectly
  replayed from cache

Author: hipudding