doc: git-reset: clarify git reset [mode]

>From user feedback, there was some confusion about the differences
between the modes, including:

1. Sometimes it says "index" and sometimes "index file".
   Fix by replacing "index file" with "index".
2. Many comments about not being able to understand what `--merge` does.
   Fix by mentioning `git merge --abort` since my best guess is that
   most folks want to use that instead of `git reset --merge`.
3. Issues telling the difference between --soft and --mixed, as well as
   --keep. Leave --keep alone because I couldn't understand its use case,
   but change `--soft` / `--mixed` / `--hard` as follows:

--mixed is the default, so put it first.

Describe --soft/--mixed/--hard with the following structure:

* Start by saying what happens to the files in the working directory,
  because the thing users want to avoid most is irretrievably losing
  changes to their working directory files.
* Then describe what happens to the staging area. Right now it seems to
  frame leaving the index alone as being a sort of neutral action.
  I think this is part of what's confusing users, because in Git when
  you update HEAD, Git almost always updates the index to match HEAD.
  So leaving the index unchanged while updating HEAD is actually quite
  unusual, and it deserves to be flagged.
* Finally, give an example for --soft to explain a common use case.

Signed-off-by: Julia Evans <julia@jvns.ca>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>

Author: jvns

Documentation/git-reset.adoc

@@ -24,42 +24,44 @@ However, when you specify files or directories or pass `--patch`,
 files without updating HEAD.
 
 `git reset [<mode>] [<commit>]`::
-	This form resets the current branch head to _<commit>_ and
-	possibly updates the index (resetting it to the tree of _<commit>_) and
-	the working tree depending on _<mode>_. Before the operation, `ORIG_HEAD`
-	is set to the tip of the current branch. If _<mode>_ is omitted,
-	defaults to `--mixed`. The _<mode>_ must be one of the following:
+	Set the current branch head (`HEAD`) to point at _<commit>_.
+	Depending on _<mode>_, also update the working directory and/or index
+	to match the contents of _<commit>_.
+	_<commit>_ defaults to `HEAD`.
+	Before the operation, `ORIG_HEAD` is set to the tip of the current branch.
++
+The _<mode>_ must be one of the following (default `--mixed`):
 +
---
-`--soft`::
-	Does not touch the index file or the working tree at all (but
-	resets the head to _<commit>_, just like all modes do). This leaves
-	all your changed files "Changes to be committed", as `git status`
-	would put it.
 
+--
 `--mixed`::
-	Resets the index but not the working tree (i.e., the changed files
-	are preserved but not marked for commit) and reports what has not
-	been updated. This is the default action.
+	Leaves your working directory unchanged.
+	Updates the index to match the new HEAD, so nothing will be staged.
 +
 If `-N` is specified, removed paths are marked as intent-to-add (see
 linkgit:git-add[1]).
 
+`--soft`::
+	Leaves your working directory unchanged. The index is left unchanged,
+	so everything in your current commit will be staged.
+	For example, if you have no staged changes, you can use
+	`git reset --soft HEAD~5; git commit`
+	to combine the last 5 commits into 1 commit.
+
 `--hard`::
-	Resets the index and working tree. Any changes to tracked files in the
-	working tree since _<commit>_ are discarded.  Any untracked files or
-	directories in the way of writing any tracked files are simply deleted.
+	Overwrites all files and directories with the version from _<commit>_,
+	and may overwrite untracked files.
+	Updates the index to match the new HEAD, so nothing will be staged.
 
 `--merge`::
+	Mainly exists for backwards compatibility: `git merge --abort` is the
+	usual way to abort a merge. See linkgit:git-merge[1] for the differences.
 	Resets the index and updates the files in the working tree that are
 	different between _<commit>_ and `HEAD`, but keeps those which are
 	different between the index and working tree (i.e. which have changes
 	which have not been added).
 	If a file that is different between _<commit>_ and the index has
 	unstaged changes, reset is aborted.
-+
-In other words, `--merge` does something like a `git read-tree -u -m <commit>`,
-but carries forward unmerged index entries.
 
 `--keep`::
 	Resets index entries and updates files in the working tree that are