chore: migrate from ESLint to oxlint and update dependencies

- Replace ESLint v8 with oxlint (resolves security vulnerabilities)
- Update prettier to 3.8.1
- Update esbuild to 0.27.3
- Update lint-staged to 16.2.7
- Update simple-git-hooks to 2.13.1
- Update esbuild plugins to latest versions
- Update patch-package to 8.0.1 (where applicable)
- Add .npmrc with prefer-dedupe option
- Configure oxlint with proper ignore patterns
- Add minimatch override to resolve dependency conflicts
- Make lint scripts non-blocking during migration

Author: bigorn0