Sex

Sex for over 30 & HLCommunity are fun subs to read. David Buss's interview on Sex, Dating, Relationships, and Sex Differences was fascinating.

Come as You Are is great book.

SKYN Ultra Thin are least bad condoms I found. It's best to get tested though and use other birth controls like NuvaRing once you find a stable partner. Or get a vasectomy once you're certain you don't want any more kids.

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Don't have PIV sex immediately as it can be painful and unpleasant. Foreplay is important. Be gentle. Can give her an orgasm without any PIV involved easily.
Going off birth control often increases sex drive. But increases chances of conception dramatically.
There is no such thing as vaginal orgasm, only clitoral.
Female birth control often has negative side effects on the body. Ideally research into male contraception that's not just condoms/vasectomy. IUD seems like the best least problematic contraceptive method.
Take foreplay slower. It can happen early on and at any part of the day through compliments or light touches. The key to having a nice sexual experience is when everyone is fully relaxed, nothing is rushed and everything feels natural and not forced. Communicate everything.
Women's desire usually drives from a story being played out.
Skyn have the best condoms
Always satisfy your partner first before finishing yourself.
You don’t have to deposit to a sperm bank for IVF. If a person wanted to do IVF after a vasectomy they can extract the sperm from your testicles and do it that way.
Move sideways, not up and down
Prone bone or missionary with a pillow are top positions that can hit the g spot
Always use condoms before both been tested for STD's and both sides are aware of the pregnancy risks and willing to take them (if that happens) or use female contraception consistently.
When you orgasm, make sure she knows it, either vocally (moans, heavy breaths, etc) or physically (ie: your whole body clenches up and you drive in as deep as you can, kinda obvious). The point is to make sure she knows how great she's making you feel.
Plan B is only good for 72 hours after the incident and will not work if you are ovulating.
There are substantial STI concerns associated with unprotected oral, aside from HSV1. You can also get gonorrhea, chlamydia, or syphilis via oral sex. Even worse, drug-resistant gonorrhea is now a thing. Condoms can make all sex acts (oral, anal, PIV) feel worse, but it doesn't need to be terrible. You (and everyone in here who's bashing condoms) should invest in finding a condom that fits properly, feels good, and has minimal odor/flavor. The most straightforward way to do this is to buy Skyn Elite condoms in both regular size and large size (the latter - Skyn Elite Large - is easiest to find online). Skyn condoms are made from synthetic latex, which has minimal odor/flavor. The "Elite" version is thinner, which feels better. And I recommend the large size because the standard condom size (in the US) is too tight for even the average erection, often causing discomfort and loss of erection. Let that sink in: the average guy can safely wear a large condom, improving sensation and performance. You - and everyone with a dick - should buy a few condoms and figure out what works best. It will mostly change your perspective at least somewhat.

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