feat: add JsonApiOptions for configurable query limits (#63)

- Add `JsonApiOptions` class with security limits for query complexity
- MaxFilters (50), MaxFilterGroups (10), MaxFilterDepth (3),
MaxFilterValueLength (1000)
- MaxIncludeDepth (3), MaxPageSize (100), DefaultPageSize (10)
- Queries exceeding limits return 400 Bad Request with helpful error
messages
- Configure via `services.AddJsonApiToolkit(options => { ... })`

Author: erlendellefsen

.github/release-please-config.json

@@ -4,6 +4,7 @@
     ".": {
       "release-type": "simple",
       "package-name": "Intility.JsonApiToolkit",
+      "include-component-in-tag": false,
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         { "type": "fix", "section": "Bug Fixes", "hidden": false },