fix: make Windows stdio pywin32 optional

[raashish1601]

Summary

• stop importing client stdio modules eagerly from mcp.init
• make pywin32 optional via a new stdio extra while keeping the dev/test dependency group on that extra
• add import regressions plus installation notes for Windows server-only installs

Fixes #2233.

Testing

• python -m uv run pytest tests/issues/test_2233_windows_stdio_imports.py tests/server/test_stdio.py tests/issues/test_1027_win_unreachable_cleanup.py tests/client/test_session_group.py -q
• fresh base install in a throwaway Windows venv: python -m uv pip install -e . followed by rom mcp.server.stdio import stdio_server, with pywin32 absent from that environment

[maxisbey]

Thanks for the PR. Per our CONTRIBUTING.md we ask that PRs start from a linked, triaged issue with maintainer buy-in, which this one doesn't have yet. I'm closing this out as part of a backlog cleanup around the v2 release. Feel free to reopen if this is still relevant.

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