doc: add instructions to build with ninja

Author: legendecas

doc/contributing/build_with_ninja.md

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+# Build Test with Ninja
+
+Ninja can be used to speed up building tests with optimized parallelism.
+
+To build the tests with ninja and node-gyp, run the following commands:
+
+```sh
+/node-addon-api $ node-gyp configure -C test -- -f ninja
+/node-addon-api $ ninja -C test/build/Release
+# Run tests
+/node-addon-api $ node ./test/index.js
+
+# Run tests with debug addon
+/node-addon-api $ ninja -C test/build/Debug
+/node-addon-api $ NODE_API_BUILD_CONFIG=Debug node ./test/index.js
+```