deps: update sqlite to 3.53.0

PR-URL: #62699
Reviewed-By: Colin Ihrig <cjihrig@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Edy Silva <edigleyssonsilva@gmail.com>

Author: nodejs-github-bot