[WIP] feat: support delete event reconiliation #5044

Job	Run time
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/mysql-schema)	1m 12s
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/tomcat-operator)	1m 8s
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/webpage)	1m 21s
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/leader-election)	1m 6s
	4m 47s

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