feat: allow reconcilers to override their own configuration #5117

Job	Run time
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/tomcat-operator)	2m 46s
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/mysql-schema)	3m 14s
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/leader-election)	4m 26s
sample_operators_tests (sample-operators/webpage)	3m 10s
	13m 36s

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