wheels-build: build on CUDA 13.0 (#510)

Contributes to rapidsai/build-planning#257

Proposes switching CUDA 13 wheel builds to using CTK 13.0, to avoid pulling in a dependency on `nvjitlink >= 13.1`. See the linked issue for details.

## Notes for Reviewers

### How I tested this

* built most of RAPIDS pointed at this branch... no issues compiling any projects (see PR links on rapidsai/build-planning#257)
* built `rmm`, `kvikio`, `ucxx`, `raft`, `cuvs`, `cudf`, and `cugraph` pointed at this branch and using each others' CI artifacts and testing against a range of CTK versions (rapidsai/build-planning#256) ... did not see any issues

### When can we merge this?

I think it's safe to merge immediately.

The PRs in all the repos update dependency pins and add testing against different CTK versions, but PR CI should still work on `release/26.04` in all of them immediately after merging this.

Authors:
  - James Lamb (https://github.com/jameslamb)
  - Gil Forsyth (https://github.com/gforsyth)

Approvers:
  - Bradley Dice (https://github.com/bdice)

URL: #510

Author: jameslamb

.github/workflows/wheels-build.yaml

@@ -144,19 +144,19 @@ jobs:
           - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.12', CUDA_VER: '12.9.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
           - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.13', CUDA_VER: '12.9.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
           - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.14', CUDA_VER: '12.9.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.11', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.12', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.13', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.14', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.11', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.12', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.13', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'amd64', PY_VER: '3.14', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
           # arm64
           - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.11', CUDA_VER: '12.9.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
           - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.12', CUDA_VER: '12.9.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
           - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.13', CUDA_VER: '12.9.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
           - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.14', CUDA_VER: '12.9.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.11', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.12', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.13', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
-          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.14', CUDA_VER: '13.1.1', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.11', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.12', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.13', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
+          - { ARCH: 'arm64', PY_VER: '3.14', CUDA_VER: '13.0.2', LINUX_VER: 'rockylinux8' }
           "
 
           # When pure-wheel is true and matrix_filter is default, override to build one wheel per CUDA version with amd64 and the latest PY_VER