(Mostly) Back out "[react-native] Fix clang tidy for react-native"

Summary:
D75596329 disabled many, many rules that we previously explicitly enabled over the codebase, due to a specific rule causing crash in linter when specifically linting some files like RCTDeviceInfo.mm.

Let's revert the change, and remove the specific problematic rule from our list of manually enabled rules instead.

Changelog: [Internal]

Reviewed By: sammy-SC

Differential Revision: D75734557

fbshipit-source-id: 9d6ee401bfa5d1efc8de993d366839c740aa0bdc

Author: NickGerleman