in extract code, check equality witH IS instead of = for nulls (#455)

sqlite "IS" is equivalent to SQL "IS NOT DISTINCT FROM"

close #423

Author: fgregg

sqlite_utils/db.py

@@ -1791,7 +1791,7 @@ def extract(
                 magic_lookup_column=magic_lookup_column,
                 lookup_table=table,
                 where=" AND ".join(
-                    "[{table}].[{column}] = [{lookup_table}].[{lookup_column}]".format(
+                    "[{table}].[{column}] IS [{lookup_table}].[{lookup_column}]".format(
                         table=self.name,
                         lookup_table=table,
                         column=column,