SNOW-2241408: finer grade telemetry for dbapi

[sfc-gh-yuwang]

1. Which Jira issue is this PR addressing? Make sure that there is an accompanying issue to your PR.

   Fixes SNOW-NNNNNNN

2. Fill out the following pre-review checklist:

   • I am adding a new automated test(s) to verify correctness of my new code
     • If this test skips Local Testing mode, I'm requesting review from @snowflakedb/local-testing
   • I am adding new logging messages
   • I am adding a new telemetry message
   • I am adding new credentials
   • I am adding a new dependency
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[sfc-gh-aling]

as per our discussion, let's just log first not sending the telemetry events