perf: only update uninited or outdated submodules #2885

Job	Run time
Prepare version string	4s
Build / Build macOS (Intel)	2m 39s
Build / Build Windows x64	3m 35s
Build / Build macOS (Apple Silicon)	2m 16s
Build / Build Linux	2m 48s
Build / Build Windows ARM64	3m 37s
Build / Build Linux (arm64)	2m 53s
Package / Package macOS (osx-arm64)	19s
Package / Package macOS (osx-x64)	18s
Package / Package Windows (win-arm64)	21s
Package / Package Windows (win-x64)	31s
Package / Package Linux (linux-arm64)	49s
Package / Package Linux (linux-x64)	50s
	21m 0s

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