Update build.py to allow customer set the dependency group for wheel …

[mc-nv]

This PR provide a change in response on #8329
This change motivated to align with https://peps.python.org/pep-0735/ dependency options.

CPU only build configuration evidences:

# CPU ONLY Scenario
# Dry run on default branch
$ git switch main
$ ./build.py -v --enable-logging --enable-stats --enable-tracing --enable-metrics --filesystem=gcs --filesystem=s3 --filesystem=azure_storage --endpoint=http --endpoint=grpc --endpoint=sagemaker --endpoint=vertex-ai --repo-tag=common:main  --repo-tag=core:main --repo-tag=backend:main --repo-tag=thirdparty:main --backend=ensemble --backend=identity:main --backend=repeat:main --backend=square:main --repoagent=checksum:main --cache=local:main --dryrun ;  grep -e "triton.*whl" build/*
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build/cmake_build:cp /tmp/tritonbuild/tritonserver/install/python/triton*.whl /tmp/tritonbuild/install/python
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonserver-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[all] && \
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonfrontend-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[all]
# Dry run on PR branch without options
$ git switch mchornyi/PR8329/option
$ ./build.py -v --enable-logging --enable-stats --enable-tracing --enable-metrics --filesystem=gcs --filesystem=s3 --filesystem=azure_storage --endpoint=http --endpoint=grpc --endpoint=sagemaker --endpoint=vertex-ai --repo-tag=common:main  --repo-tag=core:main --repo-tag=backend:main --repo-tag=thirdparty:main --backend=ensemble --backend=identity:main --backend=repeat:main --backend=square:main --repoagent=checksum:main --cache=local:main --dryrun ;  grep -e "triton.*whl" build/*
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build/cmake_build:cp /tmp/tritonbuild/tritonserver/install/python/triton*.whl /tmp/tritonbuild/install/python
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonserver-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[all] && \
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonfrontend-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[all]
# Dry run on PR branch with option: --triton-wheels-dependencies-group=all
$ ./build.py --triton-wheels-dependencies-group=all -v --enable-logging --enable-stats --enable-tracing --enable-metrics --filesystem=gcs --filesystem=s3 --filesystem=azure_storage --endpoint=http --endpoint=grpc --endpoint=sagemaker --endpoint=vertex-ai --repo-tag=common:main  --repo-tag=core:main --repo-tag=backend:main --repo-tag=thirdparty:main --backend=ensemble --backend=identity:main --backend=repeat:main --backend=square:main --repoagent=checksum:main --cache=local:main --dryrun ;  grep -e "triton.*whl" build/*
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build/cmake_build:cp /tmp/tritonbuild/tritonserver/install/python/triton*.whl /tmp/tritonbuild/install/python
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonserver-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[all] && \
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonfrontend-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[all]
# Dry run on PR branch with option: --triton-wheels-dependencies-group=cpu
$ ./build.py --triton-wheels-dependencies-group=cpu -v --enable-logging --enable-stats --enable-tracing --enable-metrics --filesystem=gcs --filesystem=s3 --filesystem=azure_storage --endpoint=http --endpoint=grpc --endpoint=sagemaker --endpoint=vertex-ai --repo-tag=common:main  --repo-tag=core:main --repo-tag=backend:main --repo-tag=thirdparty:main --backend=ensemble --backend=identity:main --backend=repeat:main --backend=square:main --repoagent=checksum:main --cache=local:main --dryrun ;  grep -e "triton.*whl" build/*
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build/cmake_build:cp /tmp/tritonbuild/tritonserver/install/python/triton*.whl /tmp/tritonbuild/install/python
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonserver-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[cpu] && \
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonfrontend-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[cpu]
# Dry run on PR branch with option: --triton-wheels-dependencies-group=custom
$ ./build.py --triton-wheels-dependencies-group=custom -v --enable-logging --enable-stats --enable-tracing --enable-metrics --filesystem=gcs --filesystem=s3 --filesystem=azure_storage --endpoint=http --endpoint=grpc --endpoint=sagemaker --endpoint=vertex-ai --repo-tag=common:main  --repo-tag=core:main --repo-tag=backend:main --repo-tag=thirdparty:main --backend=ensemble --backend=identity:main --backend=repeat:main --backend=square:main --repoagent=checksum:main --cache=local:main --dryrun ;  grep -e "triton.*whl" build/*
...output omitted...
build/cmake_build:cp /tmp/tritonbuild/tritonserver/install/python/triton*.whl /tmp/tritonbuild/install/python
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonserver-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[custom] && \
build/Dockerfile:    "tritonfrontend-*.whl" | xargs -I {} pip install --upgrade {}[custom]

[whoisj]

LGTM