fix: improve source build dependencies for Linux distros

[rozsazoltan]

Summary

Improves source build dependency installation and source build diagnostics across supported platforms

This expands distro-aware dependency handling, adds broader source install CI coverage, and improves build logs so failures are easier to diagnose without flooding the terminal with full configure or compiler output

Closes #62

Changes

• Reworked automatic source build dependency installation to detect the operating system, package manager, PHP version, configure options, and requested PECL/PIE extensions
• Added dependency handling for Debian, Ubuntu, Fedora, Enterprise Linux compatible systems, Arch Linux, Alpine Linux, Amazon Linux, and macOS through Homebrew
• Improved Enterprise Linux handling by separating EL8, EL9, and EL10 compatible systems
• Added special handling for older Enterprise Linux systems where newer PHP versions require a newer re2c
• Added PIC/PIE build flags for PHP 8.5+ on EL8-compatible systems
• Improved source build logs with timestamped log files grouped by install attempt
• Updated configure and make failure output to show relevant excerpts and debug log paths instead of dumping full build logs
• Expanded source install CI coverage across major supported Linux distribution families, macOS, and Windows
• Shortened the README source build dependency documentation and linked to the dedicated skip dependency installation section

Testing

• Verified source install flow on hosted Linux, macOS, and Windows runners
• Verified source install flow across Debian, Ubuntu, Fedora, CentOS Stream, Rocky Linux, AlmaLinux, Oracle Linux, Amazon Linux, Arch Linux, and Alpine Linux containers
• Verified PHP, Composer, PIE, and required runtime extensions after source builds
• Verified PECL-capable source builds separately
• Verified source build logging behavior for configure and make failures
• Verified dependency installer syntax and workflow configuration

Notes

Automatic dependency installation remains enabled by default

Users who prefer to manage system packages manually can disable dependency installation permanently or for a single install through the existing skip_deps configuration

[rozsazoltan]

The GitHub workflow on Windows appears to be a false positive. The actual release does indeed fail on a real Windows system. See #65.