cmake: add more build options in line with automake

Updates
  - ~100 individual options added (ciphers, TLS features, debug/test, caches,
  kernel-module, key-size numerics, asm) + fixed WOLFSSL_32BIT's missing define.
  - 37 app-integration bundles (openssh, nginx, haproxy, openvpn, wpas,
  apachehttpd, jni, wolfclu, wolfsentry, ...) - each force-enables its
  sub-options and emits its defines; all build clean and match ./configure
  --enable-X exactly (miss=0/extra=0).
  - Each option wired in 3 places: add_option + define in CMakeLists.txt,
  #cmakedefine in options.h.in, source selection where needed. Verified by real
  libwolfssl.so builds.

Author: SparkiDev